They don’t need audio proof of what you guys are up to. Also, maybe reconsider that sexy lingerie. They should leave you guys alone to do your thing once the initial pleasantries are made. This is especially important if you’re going home with a guy you don’t know that well yet *e.g. It’s one thing to make it to your boyfriend’s living room. You’ve been invited in, after all, the least you can do is act a little grateful. Am I doing this for myself, not just to please them? What happens if his roommates spot you casually walking towards the toilet? Have they been respectful and constructive? Are we on the same page about the meaning of sleeping over? Of course, you’ll look great with the smokey eyes and twelve coats of mascara in the evening, but think about how it might look by the morning… not as sexy! This sense of security is vital for a relationship. Be polite to the roomies
Yes, sleeping over at a shared space can be both inconvenient and uncomfortable. So if you see that the house could be a little neater or a little cleaner, just do your best to not say anything that sounds like criticism.
